Sunday, August 21, 2011

Weekly update time! (I think)

So I think it's been about a week since I updated my life. So here we go.

Tori turned 19 on Monday. I am still amazed every day how grown up my girls are. I still remember taking them all to first grade and tearing up at what big girls they were then. Then I remember that in only 2 1/2 years, I will have 3 adult children! Am I really that old? Wow!

Along with Tori's birthday, we had a "Tori's going to college" party yesterday. Turn out was good, and everyone gave her well wishes and happy thoughts. Plus, our friends have lots of Portland connections. When they found out that Tori didn't have an apartment yet, relatives of friends started pouring out of the woodwork. Phone calls are being made, emails are being sent, and these relatives of friends will probably find her somewhere to live before we leave next month.

Kat is preparing for her sophomore year of high school. We will register her on Thursday and pay all of the fees associated with her "free public education." I did the math, and it will be close to $150 just for activity card, yearbook, and class fees. Right now I don't know if she will be taking any classes that will require the participation fee, starting at $95. I just hope this year is better for her than last year was. But, since she did so well in Driver's Ed (97% average grade), she is motivated to do well in school. Here's hoping. Also, signed her up for bowling yesterday. We start on September 10, and then she will miss the next week, because we will be in Portland crying.

Sammee will start her final year of college tomorrow. Really? She will graduate from college in 9 months? Really? Do all parents go through this? The "where did the time go" moments?

And, just so you all know, Tori's last day working at the Popcorn Shop is August 31. So, if you absolutely need amazing popcorn and want to see her, get over there before the end of the month.

Saturday, August 13, 2011

I Found It!!

I have been searching for the past 2 weeks for that one piece of evidence that will potentially make this lawsuit go away. I gave up for a bit out of frustration, but was bored tonight so I Binged it. Found a link to the Idaho Department of Health and Welfare's site to the exact information I needed! Gonna print it tomorrow, and find a way to send it to my ex's lawyer. Hopefully this will put an end to my troubles. We will see. I have the feeling that I will have to wait until next month when we have the pre-trial hearing to find out. And, just in case you were wondering, I'm not disclosing my evidence...yet.

So I will keep you updated on that progress, how I do with Tori moving to Portland, and if Kat's driving has made me crazy yet. No, not yet, but we still have 5 months to go.

Party for Tori next Saturday! We are kind of having a "going to college" shower for her. I am so excited for this. And I hate doing stuff on Saturday! So if you want to send her something let me know. Also we are putting together a book for her to take with her with pictures and little notes from friends and family. Let me know if anyone wants to contribute to that too.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Court Update

So my hearing was today at 10:00 am. First of all, my ex's attorney was almost an hour late because he was at a hearing at Juvenile court. People watching becomes a whole new sport at the court house in front of the court rooms. The attorney finally shows up, after some nice conversations with my mom and Kathy Nelson, a good friend and Children's Ministry Director at my church. They were my moral support.

The hearing was pretty short. I didn't understand that it was only held to schedule a trial date. Yes, a trial. Now I have to gather evidence, witnesses, create a defense. What am I, on Law & Order? I only have one defense right now, and I have to find documented proof of this defense. But, I have 2 months to find it.

I was fretting about him coming to town for today's hearing? I'm thinking that he will definitely come to town for the trial. And I'm not looking forward to that. But, I am a strong woman, and I will win this thing!

So I must log off for now. I have to surf the World Wide Web for this one piece of evidence. Now you are updated.