So there
have been so many annoying things that have happened in my town this week that
it is time for an Andrea rant.
So this week
has been the week for auto collisions. On Wednesday there was a school bus vs.
Dodge neon accident. First off, no kids on the bus at the time of the accident.
But, how do you miss a ginormous yellow school bus when leaving a stop sign? Are
you really in that much of a hurry that you think you can beat a school bus
through the intersection? Also on Wednesday was a semi vs. train accident in
Shelley, a town about 45 minutes from here. I really don’t know much about this
one, but, if a train is coming, STOP!!!! The final incident on Wednesday was an
intoxicated driver who took out 3 parked cars. Again, call a cab! One good
thing, Sammee vowed to me again that she will NEVER drink and drive.
Yesterday, a
pedestrian in a wheelchair was hit by a car crossing the street by the
University. Then, right in front of the high school downtown, a truck was
turning left and hit a car going straight through the intersection. A fender
bender was bad enough, but the driver of the car jumped out with a baseball
bat, smashed the passenger’s window of the truck and then chased the driver of
the truck with the bat. This happened just after school got out. So the driver
was cited for failure to yield and the wacko was arrested for assault. My
question is….when in the hell did we become so angry and so quick to fight,
sue, etc? What has happened to our society?
Today, as I
was driving to pick up Kat from school, again, by the University, I stopped for
a pedestrian at a crosswalk. She was almost hit not by one but by two cars
zipping by in the left lane after I had stopped. One even changed lanes when he
got to the stopped cars. Are we really in that much of a hurry that we can’t
slow down for 12 seconds while someone crosses the street? And one person was
yakking away on her phone! For God’s sake people, hang up and drive! Then, on
the way home, again by the University, we almost witnessed an accident because
of someone stopping for a pedestrian. Again!
As a
society, we have become selfish, hurried people with no regard for others. We
park in handicap parking spaces because they are open, and, we will only be a
couple of minutes. We jump into the only open parking space at Wal-Mart ahead
of the young mother with 3 small children so she has to walk from the North 40
with her brood. We gripe when the elderly couple in front of us at the checkout
is moving slowly. We honk at the car in front of us if they don’t jump the
second the light turns green. Very few people say please and thank you anymore.
We don’t tip our waiters, waitresses, pizza delivery drivers or hairdressers.
And, it
doesn’t stop in the outside world. We bring it into our work places, homes, and
even our places of worship. We back stab co-workers to get ahead, and gossip
about them to make ourselves look better. We treat our family like dirt. And,
if the pastor/bishop/rabbi, etc., says something to tick us off, we hold our tithe
out of spite. Or if we have a conflict with someone at the church, whether
leadership or another member, we leave in a huff and talk to everyone but the
person who wronged us about how hurt we are. Or we gossip about the family who
is struggling with something so we feel better about our shortcomings.
This society
is going to Hell in a handbasket! We need to do something NOW to fix this! I
for one will stop at crosswalks, be more patient in lines and red lights, think
before I talk about someone behind their backs, and mind my manners. I will be
doing my part. What will you do?
I just have to say Thank Heavens, it's not just me! I couldn't believe how rude Pocatello was when I came home for the Holidays. I don't think I'm an overly-polite person, and I'm not offended when someone isn't perfectly polite to me. But social customs were in place for a reason. Shrugging them off doesn't make us cool, Idaho, it makes us jerks.
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